Category Archives: Guys

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Quick Pic: Ed Westwick’s All This And A British Accent, Too

Is it just us, or is the normally pasty Brit actually tan? [New York City, 4/24/09] Keep reading »

Poll: Does It Bother You When Guys Sit With Their Legs Crossed?

Justin Timberlake was on “Jimmy Kimmel Live” last night to promote his new action reality TV show, “The Phone.” However, I couldn’t focus on anything he was saying because I couldn’t help but notice his crossed legs. I’m not sure if it’s because Justin seems a little feminine, but the way he put his hand between his thighs really bothered me and made him much less attractive to me. Guys do have it a little bit rough when they go on talk shows. What are they supposed to do with their legs, keep them wide open? What do you think? Is it OK for men to sit with their legs crossed, or does it bother you? Keep reading »

Gavin Rossdale’s Ex-Girlfriend Is A Man, Baby!

According to In Touch and James St. James, Gavin Rossdale was in love with a tranny when he was a teenager. “Marilyn,” aka crossdresser Peter Robinson, gave an exclusive interview in which he claimed he and Rossdale dated for five years, but they kept their love a secret because the Bush frontman thought it would destroy his grunge rocker image. Aw, Gavin. What’s a glittery mesh top between friends, er, fans? Although this allegation of a hidden gay past has taken every gossip writer from Hollywood to Stonewall by surprise, Boy George dished the dirt on Gav in his 1995 book: Take It Like A Man. Clearly, no one read it. Seriously, now that the word is out, Gwen should ask for a threesome! Keep reading »

Mind Of Man: Size Doesn’t Matter

If there’s one thing I’ve learned writing these columns, it’s that you ladies have penis on the brain. Which is why I’m going to admit that my penis is so huge, so gargantuan, that when I get excited, I barely have enough skin with which to whistle. Seriously. It’s like three grapefruits in a gym sock. Trash bags are my preferred prophylactic. I ain’t bragging or nothin’.

Does size really matter? How do you know your vagina isn’t all floppy? I knew a dude once who described sleeping with a woman as “driving a hatchback through the Lincoln Tunnel.” I am convinced y’all make so much of a fuss about size as a passive-aggressive way to get back at dudes who you perceive as judging you solely by your boobs, waist, and butt. But when it comes to sex, good sex, bite-mark-on-the-shoulder sex, we are the sum of our physical, and emotional, parts. Otherwise, you’re not having sex. You’re just slapping bits. Keep reading »

Quick Pic: We Wanna Grab A Six-Pack With Rafael Nadal!

Hot off his Monte Carlo Masters win over the weekend, sexy Spanish tennis player Rafael Nadal is making us sweat just watching him at the Barcelona Open (aka the Conde de Godo 2009). He’s currently battling for his fifth title at the tourney, but we bet he’ll go all the way next year, too, and get six cups — one for every ab muscle. [Barcelona, Spain, 4/21/09] Keep reading »

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Do You Google Stalk Your Dates?

Marie Claire‘s Diana Vilibert has something crazy to admit: “Give me his name and 30 minutes, and I’ll give you his life story as told through Google, from the name of his childhood pet to a comprehensive collage of ex-girlfriends. I’m all for exhaustively Googling dates and digging up what’s out there.” And she’s not alone. Nearly every one of my female friends has Googled a potential date. Some have taken it to the extreme (background info on past GF’s maybe?), while most stick to the basics. What’s his favorite music? How funny is he? Most of what we want to find out about someone can be dug up on Facebook, but for the pesky dudes who makes their profiles private, Google offers a backup plan. Of course, you may end up finding out more than you bargained for. To be honest, I worry about potential dates Googling me. What I reveal on this site alone could scare off men. But do guys Google-stalk women before dates? Find out after the jump. Keep reading »

Hot Right Now: Male Bisexuality

Frisky contributor Rachel Kramer Bussel has a fantastic piece up on the Daily Beast about men feigning bisexuality for attention. From Brody Jenner’s “Bromance” and Paul Rudd’s “I Love You, Man” to Business Insider headlines quipping about Warren Buffett’s man-crush, being kinda gay is the latest dude trend — so long as you’re straight, that is. Keep reading »

Push-Up Underwear For Men

For all of us who have ever enjoyed the work of a good push-up bra, the next sentence probably won’t be a huge shock. Guys want in on the action. But it’s not our cleavages they’re most interested in. It’s they’re own packages they’re dying to enhance. Capitalizing on the effects of the Wonderbra, designer Roland Lodoli has created push-up boxer briefs designed to “make the most of modest manhoods,” and, he says, they’ve been flying off the shelves at his shop in Zagreb, Croatia. All of which leads one to wonder: Are Croatian “manhoods” particularly modest? Lodoli says he’s working on push-up swimwear now, so men never have to feel ashamed at the beach again — “no matter how cold the water.” If a man can really wear a push-up bikini brief without feeling the least bit ashamed, more power to him, I guess. [TheSun.co.uk] Keep reading »

The Man Bib Or The Hair Dickey

Is your dude a lily-white, hair-free geek — and you’d rather he more closely resemble the guido next door? Don’t worry, girlfriend. The man bib will turn your guy from a dud to a stud! Created as part of an Australian ad campaign for Solo soda, the dude dickey gives the impression its wearer is tanner than George Hamilton and built like the Terminator. Apparently, Solo isn’t the first one to come out with an idea that puts hair on a man’s chest. Walter Van Beirendonck’s hairshirt gives its wearer that all over hirsute look. Of course, there are limitations to trying to put hair where it’s not. When you get home, and he takes off his dude bib or fursuit, you’re left with the guy you got. [Buzzfeed] Keep reading »

Seven Lucky Places You Can Find Shirtless Guys

It’s getting hot out there! And I mean more than the temp. All across this great land of ours, men are starting to strip down and show off their hot bods. It’s not quite beach weather yet, but if you know where to go, you can find some shirtless guy shrines to worship. Here are our seven favorite haunts for hunks. Keep reading »

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