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Dear Wendy Gives Dating Advice For Dudes

I’m a guy who has been dating online for a year and a half with very limited success. Aside from one two-month relationship, the process has been a total failure. I’m an only child from a family that never talked about sex or dating, so it’s no surprise that romance is the only area of my life in which I’m painfully shy. In fact, most of what I’ve learned about “what women want” is from female friends who tell me about getting hit on by creepy guys. As a result, I’m overcautious about compliments and physical contact to avoid being one of those creeps. Second dates aren’t any better, and by then even I know that I’m coming off as cold. So, Wendy, how much complimenting should a guy do on a first date? How do you casually touch on a first date, or is that creepy? Do women expect a goodnight kiss after a first online date (assuming it went well), or is a friendly hug the standard until date number two? I know that I can’t read my dates’ minds, but nobody taught me the basic etiquette and I feel like I’ve been very withdrawn as a result. Heck, I’ve avoided asking girls out again because I’m so afraid of getting slapped for trying to kiss them at the end! — Walking on Eggshells

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At The Boys’ Club: What Women Think Of Overweight Guys

Over at Asylum, token girl Emily explains why she’s a chubby chaser.

“We’ve seen enough ‘No Fat Chicks’ T-shirts and bumper stickers to know that men can be quite closed-minded when it comes to female body types. But are women any more forgiving of a few extra pounds? In a word: yes.”

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10 Things You Have To Do In Bed

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Last week, John “Mind Of Man” DeVore warned us not to compliment a man when his is naked. Noted, buddy. But I have to say, as a woman, and a whole lot of one at that, even though you’ve already taken me home and gotten me naked, I still need to hear that you are ready for this jelly. Say something nice. Otherwise, I’ll think you’re not telling me how nice my booty is because you don’t like what you see. I swear, I’m not normally so insecure, but when I drop my dress, you need to start the sweet talkin’. Even if it’s a lie and you’re glad I turned the lights off, just tell me I’m pretty. You gotta do that, gentleman, and eight more things during sex besides get off … Keep reading »

15 Romantic Gestures She’ll Hate

The men’s site ModernMan.com recently compiled a funny list of “5 Romantic Gestures She’ll Hate.” Unlike a lot of articles on men’s websites that purport to understand women, I actually found this list to be totally accurate. Among the romantic gestures women will actually loathe? Homemade “coupons” good for “backrubs,” buying her items she needs (a new vacuum!) rather than wants, and jumbotron proposals. But Modern Man missed several other romantic gestures women actually despise. Here are 15 more. Keep reading »

At The Boys’ Club: What Women Think About Manscaping

For the dudes at Asylum, the big question involves their genitals:

Since the beginning of the Woman’s Perspective series, there is one question that Asylum’s token girl has been asked over and over again by men: Should I shave my testicles? At long last, we present the Woman’s Perspective on manscaping.

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Best Dude Dance Moves Aren’t

Scientists at Northumbria University report they have discovered the best moves a guy can break out on the dance floor if he wants to woo the ladies. Supposedly, when we watch a dude bust these gyrations, we ladies are drawing unconscious conclusions about his virility, health, and strength. All I see is a guy doing a half-water sprinkler. The scientists’ advice to male dancers: If you want to attract chicks, move your neck and trunk a lot. For some real amusement, watch the bad guy dancing video here. [Gawker] Keep reading »

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