Confident Women Who Know How to Make the First Move Share Their Secrets

Get up in there!

I used to be a shy girl. Painfully so. Think Lilly Okanakurama in Pitch Perfect, then cut that in half and that was me. Once I did finally come out of my shell and start dating, it wasn’t long before I became a peruser and aggressor. For example, one time I asked my Uber driver out on a date AND I was sober!

One doesn’t need to be an alpha female or a dom to make the first move, emotionally or physically. Asking someone out is intimidating for almost everyone, but there are tips and tricks to approaching someone you are interested in even though you are nervous.

Some of the women of Reddit have advice that can be used by any gender.

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