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5 Ways To Help Him Drive You To Orgasm

Ladies, it’s time to take charge of your orgasm! Stop blaming your partner for not making it happen for you during sex. Think of your body as a high-performance vehicle that you’re placing in the hands of a novice driver—your lover—each time you have sex. He wants you to reach the big O, but he needs some help operating your vehicle. You are responsible for guiding your man to becoming an expert driver. Follow these five steps to reach the climactic finish line:

1. Become your vehicle’s expert mechanic. If you don’t know what stimulates you, how can you expect your partner to figure it out? Do some self-discovery—masturbate. First, don’t forget to lubricate your whole vaginal area; wetter is better. Using your fingers, try different tempos and pressure levels for reaching an orgasm. Play with your nipples and see how that adds to your experience. Read a sexy book and fantasize about anything that gets you revved up. Try a vibrator on your clitoris or inside your vagina. Read more on Your Tango…

5 Simple Steps To A Sexier Bedroom

Many of us are focused on self-growth and self-reflection when it comes to enhancing our sex lives — and there’s nothing wrong with that! But most of us aren’t even aware of the importance that our environment plays in having a better sex life. Sadly, we often neglect the place where most of the action takes place: the bedroom.

Have you really looked at your bedroom lately? Go ahead, give it a once-over. Does it invite intimacy? Is it comfortable? Does it feel like your sanctuary? Or could it use some improvement?

Below are some totally doable tips for creating a bedroom that will not only enhance your sex life, but become a refuge from the stress of daily life, too.

1. Sexy to the touch. A cozy comforter makes you want to slip into bed, and soft sheets complete the experience. Remember, only a few throw pillows … you don’t want to ruin the romantic moment by doing manual labor to clear yourselves a spot on the bed! Plush carpeting is always nice, but if your budget is an issue, a soft and furry throw rug creates a comfy landing for your feet … or for the both of you, in case the mood strikes before you make it to the mattress. Read more on Your Tango…

Are You Dating A Cat Or A Dog?

A lot of people think of acts of romance as being gender-specific. Men should bring home bouquets of long-stemmed roses and women should wear naughty lingerie to keep the fire burning in their relationships. The problem with this kind of thinking is that it perpetuates false gender roles and actually misleads people into following a set of rigid sex-centric guidelines that ends up hurting the relationship — and disregards your uniqueness as a couple. I have a solution.

So here’s my secret technique: consider romance from the perspective of a cat or a dog.

Now, I know what you’re thinking. You’re thinking, “What’s the difference between thinking in male/female terms and cat/dog terms?” Bear with me for a moment. Read more on Your Tango…

How To Prolong Foreplay

Most women want more foreplay before we can enjoy the pleasures of intercourse. Foreplay is essential to build arousal before penetration of any kind, and most of us can’t get enough. Here are five ideas to get more foreplay every time you make love:

1. Foreplay all day. Foreplay can start long before you hit the sheets. Let your erotic tension build all day by allowing yourself to think about sex. Allow your thoughts to wander and daydream vividly about what you want to experience when you get together with your lover. The more detail you bring to your fantasies, the better. Your mind will start to get your body on board and you may find yourself more aroused when you finally see your lover. Read more on Your Tango…

4 Hot Sex Moves Every Man Craves

When it comes to pleasing men in the bedroom with smokin’ hot sex moves, women often mistakenly feel they have to bend themselves into some sort of exotic new sex position (that’s actually why I created the Bad Girl’s Bible). And while variety definitely adds spice to your sex life, a contortionist isn’t always what he wants (and in the extreme, can make for some awkward trips to the emergency room).

Instead, just remaster the hottest of tried and true sex moves that already drive him nuts. And what exactly are these classic moves? I’m glad you asked …

1. The move that only needs your mouth. Ask any guy and he will tell you this: getting a blow job is one of the sexiest things he can receive from his girl. To get you started, here are three things to remember when going down on him. Read more on Your Tango…

The 3 Best Masturbation Techniques For Women

Masturbating should always be a fun and pleasurable experience, ending in a body-shaking orgasm for you. That’s why I want to give you these four incredible masturbation techniques from The Bad Girl’s Bible. Now some of these techniques may be a bit extreme for you, but I really hope that you will at least try them once.

But before you you even try one of these masturbation techniques, you’ll want to set the mood for sensuality by stimulating your senses. Read more on Your Tango…

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