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Study: Single Mothers The Reason For The Decline Of Men?

A War On Men?
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Absurd allegations from a Fox News' scare piece. Read More »
Single Mom Speaks
Rick Santorum is super-freaking ignorant about single moms. Read More »
What To Know
... about single moms. Read More »

Nerd alert!  I feel very “Lord of the Rings” whenever I read about the “fall” of men: dramatic, old fashioned, and spoken in Cate Blanchett’s voice.  And the conversation (like the trilogy) seems never-ending.  From Hanna Rosin’s book The End of Men to Charles Murray’s Coming Apart, everybody must add their two cents about why male incomes as a whole are declining.

So here’s mine.  I personally find this male-centric view frustrating.  Yes, according to a 2010 USA Today article, women are entering institutions of higher education at record-high rates, surrpassing that of men. Though I may think, Who cares?  Men have been dominating for millennia!, economists are worried about employment eligibility and opportunity for men. As reported by The New York Times, a new study by Massachusetts Institute of Technology Professor David H. Autor, takes a stab at explaining this puzzling societal problem. Keep reading »

NYPD’s Misguided Strategy To Get Domestic Violence Victims To Cooperate

Domestic Violence Arrest
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Chad Ochocinco was arrested for domestic violence this weekend. Read More »
On Abused Women
Facts about why abused women stay with their abusers. Read More »
Abuse Registry?
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Should there be a registry for people who commit DV? Read More »
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If you abuse your partner you deserve some serious jail-time.  Nobody could argue with that.  Yet, according to The New York Post, the New York Police Department’s method of getting a victim to cooperate and close a case could potentially do more harm than good.

According to the Post, a March 5 memo written by Chief of Detectives Phil Pulaski outlines the tactic: background check both the victim and perp.  If the victim has any outstanding warrants use that to sway them from backing out of police cooperation.  According to the Post’s source, “They want us to use that as leverage to force them to remain cooperative,” close a case and put an abusive partner behind bars. Keep reading »

Feministing’s Zerlina Maxwell Challenges Sean Hannity About Teaching Men Not To Rape

Teach Boys Not To Rape
On Steubenville High School and teaching boys not to rape. Read More »
Soapbox: Abuse & Kink
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Jessica talks about abuse within the kink community. Read More »
Rape Sensitivity Training
Teaching members of the GOP that rape =bad. Read More »
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Zerlina Speaks Out!

Feministing blogger Zerlina Maxwell is a survivor of rape. Last week, Maxwell appeared with Sean Hannity on Fox News and what she said on the show generated some racist, misogynist comments and both rape threats and death threats. Her “controversial” comment? She said, “I think we should be telling men not to rape women and start the conversation there with prevention.”

That’s not OK to say, apparently: it poked the hornet’s nest of our society’s long held, deeply flawed ideas about rape as well as squeamish attitudes when it comes to discussing it.

Zerlina Maxwell, we at The Frisky stand with you.  Men should be taught not to rape. Here are three misconceptions about rape that she schooled Sean Hannity and his viewers on in the exchange: Keep reading »

Conservative Wackadoo Advises Society “Shame” And “Punish” People For Pre-Marital Sex

Fired For Premarital Sex
A teacher was fired for having premarital sex. Read More »
Sandra Fluke At The DNC
"It could easily have been any one of you." Read More »
Frisky Rant: Slut-Shaming
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Frisky Rant: slut shaming doesn't have a silver lining. Read More »

If you’re wondering where society went wrong, the uber-conservative, anti-gay Family Research Council has an idea: it was when the Supreme Court overturned a law that banned the sale of birth control to — gasp! — unmarried folks.

This week, FRC senior fellow Pat Fagan appeared on the radio show ”Washington Watch to blast premarital sex. “Society never gave young people that right,” he ranted. ”Functioning societies don’t do that, they stop it, they punish it, they corral people, they shame people, they do whatever.”  The right for single, consenting adults to have sex, that is.

Good thing this guy told us so now we know: we have no right to have sex out of wedlock. Whoopsies. [MediaiteHuffington Post]

Gay Sex For Everyone! Virginia Strikes Down Anti-Sodomy Law

Mag Rejects Lesbians
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Ad depicting lesbian couple rejected, then welcomed, by wedding mag. Read More »
'I'm Gay' Cake
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A girl comes out to her parents with an "I'm gay!" cake. Read More »
VA Spa Bans Gay
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Virginia spa bans LGBTQ folks to "protect children." Read More »
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Welcome to the 21st century, Virginia! Despite the Supreme Court ruling in 2003 that state law can not deem sexual relations between consenting adults a “crime,” VA has continued to do so for 10 years — until this week.  An appeals court finally nixed the state’s anti-sodomy law regulating “crimes against nature,” which criminalized anal and oral sex between consenting adults. The law was basically seen as a justification for VA authorities to further persecute gay and lesbian folks. Well, that is no more. Commit all the crimes against nature (between consenting adults, of course) that you want! [Huffington Post, Queerty]

An Etsy Gem: Crying Kim Kardashian iPhone Case

Kardashian Body Fluids
Kim Kardashian blood facial
Blood, urine, breast milk — they've played with it all. Read More »
Naked Mag Cover
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Kanye and Kim are naked on the cover of a magazine, just as we'd suspect. Read More »
All Hail Lord Disick
Complete with a vanity cane. Read More »

I still don’t know why Kim Kardashian is famous, but I’m sure as hell glad she is. Without her, we’d lack someone to carry Kanye’s baby or a reason to care about Lord Scott Disick. But just in case your life, like mine, does not have Kim everywhere, you need a completely ridiculous iPhone case of “crying Kim.” They’re from Etsy.com, of course.  I have no words. It sums up everything we feel about Kim: love her enough to put her on a phone, but not without a hint of spite in the form of an awkward crying photo. [Etsy.com]

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