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True Story: I Attended A Luxury BDSM Weekend

Queue my domme spirit quest.

Rachel White | August 4, 2015 - 2:00 pm

What If It Hadn’t Been “Fifty Shades of Grey” But One Of These Erotic Novels Instead?

My mom never read erotica (that I know of) when I was growing up, but on a recent trip home I spotted a copy of Fifty Shades of Grey in…

Rachel White | October 25, 2012 - 1:00 pm

7 Lady Killers Who Will Scare The Crap Out Of You

No need for horror stories this Halloween when there are lady killers who will sufficiently scare the crap out of you. Reading about female killers is a guilty pleasure of…

Rachel White | October 15, 2012 - 2:00 pm

Girl Talk: Going To A Nude Beach Made Me Feel A Little Better About Life

I am not a beach person. The way seagulls swoop over your head like rats with wings terrifies me. I hate that feeling of sand caked in every crevice.

Rachel White | October 8, 2012 - 12:00 pm

12 Famous Women Who’ve Used Their Sexuality (To Get Ahead)

The combination of tits and drive can, apparently, cause the internet to crash. In the past six months I’ve watched as publications and writers I admire scrutinize Lana Del Rey

Rachel White | June 29, 2012 - 11:00 am

The 10 Best Pieces Of “Pink Journalism” I’ve Read This Year

When the ASME (American Society of Magazine Editors) awards for magazine journalism were listed online, the blogopshere took a quick whiff and reported back with the precise recipe for becoming…

Rachel White | June 18, 2012 - 10:02 am

8 Ways To Be Positive You’re Sex Positive

Here in the land of lady blogs, most of us believe that sex and exploring your sexuality is a great thing. “Sex positive” is the go-to term for this, which…

Rachel White | May 9, 2012 - 2:00 pm

7 Kinky Sex Tips For Curious Vanilla Girls

Are you ladies more kinky than you’re admitting? Considering the popularity of 50 Shades of Grey, the erotica book burning the laps of lady readers across the country, I’m guessing you…

Rachel White | March 16, 2012 - 1:00 pm

Ask A Sex Surrogate: 6 Tips For Dealing With Premature Ejaculation

I recently spoke with Jen, a sex surrogate. For those of you asking: “Wait. A whaaat?” allow me to explain. A sex surrogate is sort of like a sex worker,…

Rachel White | March 5, 2012 - 2:00 pm

Girl Talk: On Dating Younger Guys

His name was Patrick, but everyone referred to him as “the 17-year-old.” That was how his number was saved in my phone. I met the 17-year-old while visiting my 17-year-old…

Rachel White | March 2, 2012 - 12:00 pm

Girl Talk: My Husband And I Chose Our Own Last Name

Each year on the first day of school, there were kids who came back as entirely new people. They’d correct the teacher during role call. 

“Erin?” the teacher…

Rachel White | February 23, 2012 - 12:00 pm

Girl Talk: Why Am I Scared Of Men?

After hours in front of my laptop, my back is usually gnarled into a “C” shape. I’ve learned to remedy the Ladyblogging Hunchback with some yoga. But this afternoon, when…

Rachel White | January 27, 2012 - 12:00 pm

Girl Talk: The Truth About Being Friends With Men

Recently, a friend sent me a link to a YouTube video called “Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?” I rolled my eyes. I hate that question. It’s heteronormative and sexist,…

Rachel White | January 16, 2012 - 1:00 pm

10 Teen Movie Makeovers And What We Learned From Them

In honor of New Year, New You month at The Frisky, I’ve taken an in-depth look at one of the biggest teen movie cliches: the “makeover scene” (second only to…

Rachel White | January 5, 2012 - 10:00 am

A Brief History Of LadyJanes (Women Who Pay For Sex)

When we think of people who hire sex workers, we probably conjure up the image of a shadow-y dudes, all back-alley-creepy-like. But what about the women that pay for it? It’s…

Rachel White | December 22, 2011 - 11:00 am

Girl Talk: I Think I Had A G-Spot Orgasm

I think I had a g-spot orgasm. Maybe. I’m not really sure. Even as I thought I might be having one, I questioned its existence.

Somewhere along the…

Rachel White | December 19, 2011 - 2:00 pm

Girl Talk: Pooping Is A Feminist Issue

Mary and I were sitting on her couch, laughing. “But wait, no seriously, is pooping a  feminist issue? Why aren’t we talking about this?” I asked.

It was…

Rachel White | December 7, 2011 - 1:00 pm

What It Means To Be “Gray-Sexual”

Belinda’s OkCupid account opens with this message: “If you are looking for casual sex, please move on … If you are looking for formal sex, please move on as well.

Rachel White | November 22, 2011 - 1:00 pm

Girl Talk: How Lesbian Sex Changed My Definition Of Straight Sex

When I was a kid, I thought “sex” was two people peeing on each other. Like, I imagined you got in a bed naked and cuddled  for so long that…

Rachel White | November 14, 2011 - 12:00 pm

Girl Talk: In Praise Of Monogamy

Recently my husband and I went on a double date. We met my friend Kate and her husband Bear, at a German Beer Hall. I hadn’t met Bear, and I…

Rachel White | November 2, 2011 - 12:00 pm

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