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Girl Talk: On Dealing With Rape Within A Relationship

Disclosing My Rape
She's started telling guys on the first date that she was once raped. Read More »
On Consent Culture
What would a world where consent was honored look like? Read More »
I Was Date Raped
Amelia was date raped in college by a guy she liked. Read More »
Rape Within Relationships

I was always utterly convinced that I was stronger and more logically driven than the average woman when it came to dealing with relationships. I remember reading stories about women who stayed with men after being hurt by them; who made excuses for a man’s violation or abuse, swatting away any logical notion of leaving and taking their dignity with them. For what? Validation? I never understood what the hell that was supposed to mean. Rather than reaching out to friends, family or professionals for help, you stick around to be validated by the very person that took something from you? That, and all the other obscure, irrational reasons that are so often cited. I was convinced that I was far too strong and sensible to ever stick around after being treated poorly. I’d turn and leave the asshole to fester in his guilt … at the very least.

Well, when it happened to me I didn’t leave. As for excuses? I made a trillion of them. Keep reading »

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