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Lesbian Parents In Texas May Be Forced To Move Apart Because They Can’t Legally Marry

Gay Teen Targeted
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Kaitlyn Hunt battling charges for consensual same-sex relationship. Read More »
RI Legalizes Gay Marriage
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Rhode Island has legalized same-sex marriage! Read More »
What Queerness Means
My queerness includes attraction to men and that's okay. Read More »
On Gays & Attraction
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Just because Shanelle is gay doesn't mean she's attracted to all women. Read More »
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Page Price and Carolyn Compton are a pair of moms living in Texas. They have been together for three years and are raising two children that Compton had with her ex-husband. But the couple may be forced by a court to move apart due to a “morality clause” in Compton’s custody agreement with her ex that said no sexytimes overnight guests could sleep at the home — and the longtime, cohabitating couple are not legally allowed to marry by Texas law. Keep reading »

RIP Society: 3 Teens Post Rape Of A 12-Year-Old Girl On Facebook

Teach Boys Not To Rape
On Steubenville High School and teaching boys not to rape. Read More »
After Sexual Assault
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Tips for reclaiming your sex life after being sexually assaulted. Read More »
13yo Bullied Over Rape
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A teen girl is bullied online after alleged rape by two Torrington, CT, athletes. Read More »
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Three Chicago teenagers are facing sexual assault charges after they allegedly raped a 12-year-old girl at gunpoint and posted a video of that attack on Facebook.

In December, two 16-year-old boys and one 15-year-old boy brought the girl to one of their homes and allegedly took turns assaulting her, including sodomizing her. One of the young men had a gun in his pocket during some of the assaults and another held the gun during the rape. All of the rapes were caught on film and all three boys are visible in the videos, flashing gang signs. Keep reading »

Fat Blogger Poses Like She’s In An Abercrombie & Fitch Ad

Abercrombie & Fitch’s CEO Mike Jeffries said he only wants his clothes worn by “the cool and popular kids,” not the “not-so-cool kids,” which is why sizes only go up to women’s size 10. Men’s sizes, by the way, go up to XL and XXL because it’s only women who can be too fat for Abercrombie’s clothes. Fuck that noise! Here’s Jes from the blog The Militant Baker posing with a traditionally “hot” male model in a variety of Abercrombie & Fitch poses. In an open letter on her web site she writes,

“I didn’t take these pictures to show that the male model found me attractive, or that the photographer found me photogenic, or to prove that you’re an ostentatious dick. Rather, I was inspired by the opportunity to show that I am secure in my skin and to flaunt this by using the controversial platform that you created. I challenge the separation of attractive and fat, and I assert that they are compatible regardless of what you believe. Not only do I know that I’m sexy, but I also have the confidence to pose nude in ways you don’t dare. You are more than welcome to prove me wrong by posing shirtless with a hot fat chick.”

Who says fat girls aren’t the cool kids? [The Militant Baker via BuzzFeed]

Abercrombie's CEO
Abercrombie & Fitch Ad, An Open Letter To Mike Jeffries
An open letter to the offensive CEO of Abercrombie & Fitch. Read More »
Comedian's DBag Prank
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Comedian takes on doucebag Abercrombie & Fitch. Read More »
Your Fat Partner
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Seven ways to be a good ally to your fat lover. Read More »

Frisky Reader Revealed: Who Can Do It? CatieCan!

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Hands down, the best thing about working at The Frisky is our amazing readers. We so heart all of your witty, thoughtful, and informative comments — heck, we even appreciate the mean ones. Sometimes, we can’t help but wonder about the faces behind the avatars. So we decided to bring back our regular column where we learn all about a Frisky reader. After the jump, meet CatieCan!

(And if you’re interested in being featured as a Reader Revealed, shoot me an email with “Reader Revealed” in the subject line!) Keep reading »

Rihanna’s Dad Says He’s Still Chris Brown’s “Number One Fan”

Dad Calls Her "Fat"
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Rihanna's dad calls her "fat" and calls Chris Brown a "nice guy." Read More »
Onion Satire
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A piece on the Onion about Chris Brown and Rihanna rankles some. Read More »
  • Here’s how Rihanna’s dad Ronald Fenty reacted to her breakup from Chris Brown: “I’m still his No. 1 fan — I still like Chris regardless.” Reminder: this is the same dad who called his daughter “fat” in an interview. [Global Grind]
  • Brad Pitt confessed to Esquire he was worried he did too much “drug damage” to his brain. [Dlisted]
  • Sorry, ladies, Justin Bartha is off the market. He’s engaged to personal trainer Lia Smith. [People]
  • Bikini wax pain: what’s normal and what’s not! [Allure] Keep reading »

Does Anyone Care That Kristen Stewart & Robert Pattinson Broke Up (Again)?

Kristen & Sean Penn?
Kristen Stewart's had a rumored hookup with Sean Penn. Read More »
"Robsten" Grief
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The five stages of grieving the end of Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart. Read More »
Kristen On Love Triangles
The actress has a loaded conversation for "Twilight." Read More »

Iowa Senate Republican Staffer Says She Was Fired After Reporting Sexual Harrassment

How To Talk To Girls
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For starters, don't ask to see her private parts. Read More »
#IAskedPolitely
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Hashtag gathers stories of asking sexual harassment to stop. Read More »
I Was Sexually Harassed
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... while trying to run errands at my local store. Read More »
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  • Kirsten Anderson, a former staffer for Iowa Senate Republicans, said she was fired hours after reporting and providing documentation of sexual harassment. According to WHO TV,  Anderson said “male staffers and senators used sexist language, commented about her body and her clothes.” [WHO TVRaw Story]
  • A Facebook page that is a “direct threat” against Rep. Jackie Speier has been shut down and referred to Capitol police. The page had several disparaging comments on it from active duty service members. Rep. Speier was targeted for helping to shut down a page run by active Marines which mocked violence against female troops. [NBC News]
  • A former “hero cop” Richard DeCoatsworth who once sat next to the First Lady at a presidential speech has been accused of raping two women at gunpoint and numerous other crimes. [Jezebel]
  • A so-called “crisis pregnancy center” has moved next door to an abortion clinic in Charleston, West Virginia. [RH Reality Check]
  • On the feminism of Beyoncé (and no, this one’s not from Ms.!) [Bitch Magazine] Keep reading »

Florida Teen Kaitlyn Hunt Battling Expulsion, “Lewd” Charges For Consensual Same-Sex Relationship

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An 18-year-old Florida high school senior has been expelled from school and is facing charges of “lewd and lascivious battery” for her consensual same-sex relationship with a 15-year-old from her basketball team.

Kaitlyn Hunt, formerly a cheerleader, choir singer and basketball player at Sabastian River High School, met the unnamed teen at school when Hunt was 17. They began dating after Kaitlyn turned 18, which, according to Hunt’s mother, Kelly Hunt Smith, prompted the girl’s parents to call police about the age discrepancy in their relationship. But it isn’t statutory rape the parents are worried about — it is homosexuality. Smith wrote on a Facebook page that the girls’ parents believe Kaitlyn Hunt “turned” their child gay, yet “Kaitlyn’s girlfriend denies that Kaitlyn ever pressured her and is adamant that their relationship is entirely consensual, but her parents are out to destroy Kaitlyn’s life.” Keep reading »

Beyoncé On The Cover Of Ms. Causes Controversy

Beyonce's A Feminist
Beyonce says she's a "modern-day feminist." Read More »
On Beyonce
And the luxury of playing "Mrs. Carter." Read More »
Beyonce Lightened
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Whoa, this doesn't look like Beyonce at all. Read More »
Baby Number 2?
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Is Beyonce pregnant again? Read More »
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Ms. magazine is one of the oldest, if not the oldest, feminist magazines in America. The mag has occasionally featured celebrities on the cover; Wonder Woman was its very first cover girl, while other cover stars include Meryl Streep, Cher, Cecily Tyson, Ani DiFranco and Pam Grier.

But the mag’s latest cover girl, Beyoncé, is causing controversy for all kinds of reasons. Keep reading »

Radio Host Says Hillary Clinton Should Be “Shot In The Vagina,” Calls Her The C-Word

Pro-Marriage Equality!
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Hillary Clinton comes out in support of marriage equality. Read More »
Hillary Resigns
Hillary Clinton has resigned as Secretary of State. Read More »
Sexist 'Post' Cover
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Oh no, this Hillary Clinton 'New York Post' cover isn't sexist at all. Read More »

This weekend, Internet right-wing radio host Pete Santilli said he wants to shoot Hillary Clinton in the vagina and watch her die. Oh, and he called her a “C U Next Today,” although that’s the least of it, really.

Here are Santilli’s batshit crazy comments about how the former Secretary of State is allegedly involved in drug trafficking in Arkansas (?) and the death of U.S. troops (emphasis mine):

Miss Hillary Clinton needs to be convicted, she needs to be tried, convicted and shot in the vagina. I wanna pull the trigger. That ‘C U Next Tuesday’ has killed human beings that are in our ranks of our service. I want to shoot her right in the vagina and I don’t want her to die right away. I want her to feel the pain and I want to look her in the eyes and I want to say, on behalf of all Americans that you’ve killed, on behalf of the Navy SEALS, the families of Navy SEAL Team Six who were involved in the fake hunt down of this Obama, Obama bin Laden thing. That whole fake scenario, because these Navy SEALS know the truth, they killed them all. On behalf of all of those people, I’m supporting our troops by saying we need to try, convict, and shoot Hillary Clinton in the vagina. Keep reading »