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I Invited My Husband’s Ex To Our Wedding

You’ve heard the old adage: keep your friends close and your enemies closer. I’ll do you one better. I keep my friends close and his ex-girlfriends closer. So close, in…

The Stir | December 22, 2010 - 9:45 pm

My Husband Wants To Have Sex With Other People

My husband casually mentioned some people he knows at work who are swingers. He brought it up matter-of-factly, but I detected a note of serious interest! Could my husband actually…

The Stir | December 16, 2010 - 9:45 pm

I’m Still Sleeping With My Ex-Husband

Can I start dating while still sleeping with my ex-husband?

We can’t stand each other but we love sleeping together. Of course now that the divorce is final, I…

The Stir | December 15, 2010 - 9:45 pm

Why He’ll Never Understand Your Pregnancy

Pregnancy, for a dad, can feel like an awkward office-party where you’re the new employee. It’s as though you have to paste on a forced smile that you have to…

The Stir | December 11, 2010 - 8:00 pm

5 Weird Ways To Get In The Mood

Even though we look forward to the holidays as a well-deserved break from the daily grind, it can still be difficult to get “in the mood” when you’re fighting mall…

The Stir | December 9, 2010 - 9:45 pm

The All-Time Best Movie Breakups

The new movie “The Social Network” opens with a brutal breakup scene — which has inspired a frenzy of articles around the Internet where people post their favorite movie breakups.

The Stir | October 17, 2010 - 11:30 am

How To Engage In Foreplay

Want to increase the probability that you’re going to have at least one, and maybe multiple, orgasms the next time you have sex?

“It’s the foreplay, stupid.”


The Stir | October 14, 2010 - 8:45 pm

Should Married Men Have Women Friends?

Quick quiz: A 38-year-old man you don’t know well asks you to dinner. He is married, you are married. Is he hitting on you? Read more

The Stir | October 2, 2010 - 5:00 pm

How To Deal With A Guy With A Small Penis

But say your lover’s penis is small. I’m talking really small. A micro-penis. Well, if size really does matter to him, and to you, there are some surgical and non-surgical…

The Stir | September 25, 2010 - 7:00 pm

Divorce 2.0: Blogging The Whole Thing

It’s the age-old story. Boy meets girl. Boy marries girl and has two kids with her. Girl starts a blog. Boy starts a blog.

Boy and girl get divorced.

The Stir | August 22, 2010 - 5:00 pm

5 Ways Porn Makes Men Bad In Bed

If you believe porn, men need only do two simple things to send a hot blonde like Jenna Jameson into orbit. In reality, we women know better.

The porn…

The Stir | August 12, 2010 - 8:45 pm

Is My Vagina Too Big?

I hear cosmetic surgery advertisements all the time on the radio: breast enhancements, tummy tucks, liposuction, and vaginal rejuvenation.

Okay, the first three are obvious. But that fourth one?

The Stir | August 8, 2010 - 7:00 pm

Advice From A Dad: Don’t Marry Him!

What are some signs that I shouldn’t marry my boyfriend?

The first thing that leaps to mind is, “If you have to ask …” Having doubts doesn’t necessarily mean…

The Stir | August 4, 2010 - 8:45 pm

Talk For 10 Minutes A Day And Have Better Sex At Night

According to relationship experts, all the sexy lingerie in the world won’t give you the intimacy boost of a simple, calm, daily conversation — about yourselves.

Why don’t you…

The Stir | July 22, 2010 - 8:45 pm

Can Sex Without Orgasms Be Satisfying?

Do sex and orgasm go together like peanut butter and chocolate? There’s no denying that both do taste great together (unless you are allergic to peanuts). But you could have…

The Stir | July 18, 2010 - 11:30 am

Do You Have A Sexual Bucket List?

What sexual things should everyone experience before they die? And how does someone who married young rank against those who didn’t? Read more

The Stir | July 17, 2010 - 11:30 am

How To Pay Off Your Relationship Debts

One my husband’s biggest gripes is that he’s always in debt to me. And I’m the collections agent knocking down his door, refusing to offer him a deal to somehow…

The Stir | July 10, 2010 - 12:30 pm

If You Kiss Someone Else, Should You Tell Your Partner?

Something happened in the “Sex and the City 2″ movie that really had me thinking, If I was in that situation, what would I have done?

**Spoiler warning …

The Stir | June 29, 2010 - 8:45 pm

I Signed A Sex Contract With My Husband

After the birth of our first child, my libido plummeted. Things went from bad to worse in my relationship, and my husband was accusing me of abandoning him. So I…

The Stir | June 28, 2010 - 2:40 pm

When A Condom Gets In The Way

It’s great when birth control works to our advantage. It’s horrible when the way it works is to stop us from having sex in the first place! This week, one…

The Stir | June 12, 2010 - 4:30 pm

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