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Did Chivalry Kill Feminism?

In the 1950s, the rules of dating etiquette were clearer. A man knew it was not only acceptable but expected for him to open the door for his date, pull out her chair and pay for the meal. These days, the line between appreciated chivalrous acts and condescending behaviors is fuzzy at best. The feminist…

By: Ask Men / December 4, 2010

At The Boys’ Club: She Can’t Orgasm

Over at AskMen.com, the guys have spent some time considering why some women are unable to reach orgasm. Certainly, it’s a common question that Sex with Steph hears all the time. So if you can’t orgasm, you’re having trouble reaching climax, or your girl is challenged when it comes to scoring the big O, find

By: Ask Men / November 26, 2010

How To Have Sex In Risky Places

Not everyone can stomach the rush of risky sex. There could be trouble if you get caught with your pants down. Getting it on in illicit places is a bold and exciting move, and may just spice up your sex life an extra notch. The greatest and sexiest part about getting off in any of…

By: Ask Men / November 16, 2010

6 Academy Award-Winning Sex Scenes To Reenact In The Bedroom

Movies frequently offer both voyeuristic entertainment and great ideas for spicing up your sex life. A quick, hypothetical peek at the practices of some not-so-real couples can inspire greatness. We’ve already outlined seven great movie scenes that are worthy of reenactment, but in honor of the upcoming Academy Awards, let’s take a look at some…

By: Ask Men / November 10, 2010

At The Boys’ Club: He’s Still Married

Hey Doc,

I’m really clueless as to what I should do about the situation I’m in.

I was with Kayla for over one month. We had an OK time, we enjoyed each others’ company, and we both said “I love you” to each other. She was my second girlfriend, while I’m Kayla’s first…

By: Ask Men / November 7, 2010

At The Boys’ Club: How To Pump Up Your Man’s Libido

Got a dude who’s a dud in the sack? AskMen is here to help.

“A great sex life involves more than having good technique. It is a lifestyle that expands beyond the bedroom and into the everyday. What you do or don’t do for your heart, mind, and body affects your sexual health. If…

By: Ask Men / October 10, 2010

The 5 Craziest Things Women Do On Facebook

The Facebook phenomenon has allowed you to reconnect with your best friend from elementary school, keep up with your buddy’s travels and get out of hours-long phone conversations with your aunt. It truly is a remarkable tool. However, as with most things, there is a dark side to Facebook. While your male brain may not…

By: Ask Men / July 25, 2010

How To Communicate What You Want In The Bedroom

Getting what you want out of your sex life can be extraordinarily difficult for the simple reason that there’s another human being involved (usually). Not many of us are gifted communicators, much less communicators of sexual wants and desires, who can be inoffensive and still get what we want; however, there are a few basic…

By: Ask Men / July 24, 2010

How To Get A Girl To Get Dirty

The minds of men are frequently occupied with sexual ideas that would repulse the average woman. While this is the typical case, don’t assume that your girlfriend doesn’t have a dirty side. One of the advantages of being in a long-term relationship is the opportunity to share your sexual fantasies with each other and try…

By: Ask Men / July 18, 2010

What Women Are Insecure About

Does she always appear cool and confident to you? Or, conversely, do you sometimes feel like she has more than her share of insecurities?

Most women, no matter how they present themselves to the outside world, have a few nagging insecurities — especially when it comes to dating. Indeed, the dating world can be…

By: Ask Men / July 11, 2010

How The Male Brain Works

For the typical hot-blooded male, looking at attractive female shapes and body parts is as natural as breathing. And it’s perhaps just as necessary when it comes to keeping the human race going. Remember, the men who are alive today have been biologically selected over hundreds of thousands of years to be good at focusing…

By: Ask Men / June 13, 2010

For The Guys: AskMen’s The Great Male Survey 2010

At AskMen, it’s our goal to understand exactly what it means to be a man. It’s a goal we pursue every day through our articles and our interaction with readers, and it’s why we’re once again turning to our readers to ask: Who is the modern man? We invite you to participate in our annual…

By: Ask Men / May 21, 2010

We Love A Man Who Can Dance

At some point in the recent past in North America, dancing started being considered a non-masculine thing to do. Men in other cultures don’t even question whether they should dance or not. We’ve gotten into the bad habit of not even trying to dance. Women hate that. They grew up loving “Flashdance,” “Dirty Dancing,” “Save…

By: Ask Men / May 8, 2010

Is Your Sex Life Boring? Find Out How To Spice It Up

When you’ve been in a relationship for a while, the passion can ebb for the simple reason that you both know exactly what’s coming. It could be the best and dirtiest sex anyone has ever had, but it doesn’t matter: it’s the same as it was last time. It doesn’t mean you care any le…

By: Ask Men / April 18, 2010

Mistakes Men Make That Scare Off Women

There’s this guy I know who is confident, sexy and can go all night in the bedroom. But when it comes to actually dating women, he never manages to get past the first-month barrier. Instead of forming solid relationships, he continually gets dumped at the same point in every courtship. When I polled the wome…

By: Ask Men / April 11, 2010

Her Best Friend Is A Dude

It’s not unusual for men and women to be friends. You certainly have female friends, and your girlfriend no doubt has male friends, but if her best friend is a guy, well, that’s a different story.

Whether or not men and women can truly be friends — best friends — has long been a…

By: Ask Men / April 4, 2010

He Got Dumped. Whose Fault Is That? His.

You got dumped again, huh? We’d say “sorry about your luck” if we thought luck had anything to do with it. To be perfectly honest with you, however, the fact that you keep getting dumped over and over again is probably your fault. Sorry, pal. Now it’s time for some tough love.

We know…

By: Ask Men / March 20, 2010

Can A Guy Reveal Too Much?

Hey Doc,

I’ve had your book for five years now. First, I want to say that every single word in it is true. I’ve seen your coaching work time and again. It’s the best $100 I’ve ever spent. However, I think I may be one of those guys who just can’t be “fixed.” After…

By: Ask Men / March 14, 2010

Can You Be Friends With Your Ex?

In most relationships, the time to say goodbye usually arrives at one point or another — unless you intend to walk down the aisle, of course (and even then …). With your ex, you’ve shared memories that will either make you laugh or cry, and it’s time to take your experiences, put them in your…

By: Ask Men / February 10, 2010

The Best Places To Make Out

Your bed is a logical place to make out. It’s comfortable, it’s private, and if the make-out session leads to sex, there will be no need for awkwardly getting up and walking to another part of the house. It’s no wonder most of us think of our bedrooms when it’s time to get busy. However,…

By: Ask Men / February 3, 2010