’Tis the season for peace, joy and weight gain. After Christmas and New Year’s, we will all jiggle a bit more. Women will feel like kicking themselves for their weight gain and will suffer from self-loathing that lasts long past the chocolate free-for-all of Easter.
What women don’t know is that many men get Yule logs in their pants when they see extra curves on the ladies. Read more … Keep reading »
As a sex therapist and founder of Good in Bed, I’ve seen a sharp increase in men who suffer from a new syndrome I’ve dubbed “Sexual Attention Deficit Disorder,” or SADD. And the source of this problem is just a click away — read more … Keep reading »
The secret to making anal sex a fantastic experience is all in the preparation. Whether you’re doing it for the first time or you’ve made it a regular part of your sex life, there are some essential steps to take before any back door action goes on.
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In the 1950s, the rules of dating etiquette were clearer. A man knew it was not only acceptable but expected for him to open the door for his date, pull out her chair and pay for the meal. These days, the line between appreciated chivalrous acts and condescending behaviors is fuzzy at best. The feminist movement brought women the right to vote and earn equal pay, but it sure made the practice of dating more confusing in the process. It would be a dateless man indeed who didn’t acknowledge a woman’s right to make her own decisions when it comes to her life, her money, her body, and her mind — but how do you reconcile that respect with the kind of attitude a man is encouraged to project on a date? Read more … Keep reading »
Over at AskMen.com, the guys have spent some time considering why some women are unable to reach orgasm. Certainly, it’s a common question that Sex with Steph hears all the time. So if you can’t orgasm, you’re having trouble reaching climax, or your girl is challenged when it comes to scoring the big O, find out why. Keep reading »
Not everyone can stomach the rush of risky sex. There could be trouble if you get caught with your pants down. Getting it on in illicit places is a bold and exciting move, and may just spice up your sex life an extra notch. The greatest and sexiest part about getting off in any of these locales is the spontaneity and excitement of being naughty. It can of course be mentioned beforehand, just so it’s in the frontal lobes of both your minds so when you exchange that devilish look, it is understood immediately.
Read on to find out how to minimize risk and maximize pleasure when doing it in precarious places. Read more … Keep reading »
Movies frequently offer both voyeuristic entertainment and great ideas for spicing up your sex life. A quick, hypothetical peek at the practices of some not-so-real couples can inspire greatness. We’ve already outlined seven great movie scenes that are worthy of reenactment, but in honor of the upcoming Academy Awards, let’s take a look at some Oscar-worthy performances that are sure to prompt a standing ovation — no speech required. Read more … Keep reading »
I’m really clueless as to what I should do about the situation I’m in.
I was with Kayla for over one month. We had an OK time, we enjoyed each others’ company, and we both said “I love you” to each other. She was my second girlfriend, while I’m Kayla’s first boyfriend. We talked about my ex. Kayla was shocked that I was in a seven-plus-year relationship that I ended not too long ago, but she was able to handle this part of my past and we got closer. She told me that at least we were sharing, which helps to build intimacy.
Well, the bad news is that I’m actually married to my ex. Read more … Keep reading »
Got a dude who’s a dud in the sack? AskMen is here to help.
“A great sex life involves more than having good technique. It is a lifestyle that expands beyond the bedroom and into the everyday. What you do or don’t do for your heart, mind, and body affects your sexual health. If you are finding any difficulties during sex such as a lagging libido, waning stamina or erectile dysfunction, you may find that adopting certain painless lifestyle changes will boost your sex life and make you healthier and happier. It will also make her happier. And if she’s happy, you will certainly be getting some.”
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The Facebook phenomenon has allowed you to reconnect with your best friend from elementary school, keep up with your buddy’s travels and get out of hours-long phone conversations with your aunt. It truly is a remarkable tool. However, as with most things, there is a dark side to Facebook. While your male brain may not have tapped in to the full manipulation potential of this seemingly innocuous social networking tool, chances are several of the women you know have. Women are trained in the art of creating, maintaining and controlling relationships, and Facebook is just one more resource they can use to keep tabs on and influence people. Here’s a list of some crazy things women do on Facebook. Read more … Keep reading »