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Top 5: Things Not To Say To A Woman Over 30

One of the great challenges for women turning 30 is the feeling of being somewhat accomplished but still not feeling like it’s enough. And this feeling of "enough" is hard for me to express but in my opinion may be the single most important thing to understanding women over 30. "Enough" is not quantifiable by…

By: Ask Men / July 17, 2011

The Cocky Guy’s Downfall

You think she’s hot, but instead of complimenting her, you throw in a light joke about what she’s wearing. You’re not afraid to use the Cocky & Funny strategy with women, because it usually works. That’s if you pay attention to what well-known dating coach David DeAngelo has to say on the topic. But if…

By: Ask Men / July 10, 2011

Why She Didn’t Call You Back

You know how it goes: You met a smoking hot girl you really like. The chemistry was off the charts (well, according to you), she seemed totally into you too when she gave you her digits, you called her to go out sometime, and then she never returned your call. Was it the broccoli i…

By: Ask Men / May 15, 2011

At The Boys’ Club: The SADD Effect

Over at AskMen.com, the guys are discussing a little thing called “Sexual Attention Deficit Disorder,” or SADD, which happens when you watch an excessive amount of internet porn. Read on... As a sex therapist and founder of Good in Bed, I’ve seen a sharp increase in men who suffer from a new syndrome I’ve dubbed…

By: Ask Men / February 5, 2011

10 Things You Lose When You Commit

Commitment seems like a great idea. You make your relationship more official and share your life with someone who’s not going to leave by the time morning arrives. But with any big idea, there are pros and cons attached to it. With commitment comes benefits, yes, but there're also risks. It’ll do you good to…

By: Ask Men / January 23, 2011

Why Women Date Bad Boys

You do your best to be the good guy, to be the opposite of the guy who hurt her, but eventually she leaves you in the dust and returns to the excitement of the bad boy. What happened? Read more ...

By: Ask Men / January 16, 2011

Is He Marriage Material?

If you’ve ever mulled over the idea of popping the question or have had a girlfriend put pressure on you to do so, you know how life-altering making this decision feels. To help you avoid making any choices you may regret, we’ve compiled a list you can use to evaluate your readiness for marriage. From…

By: Ask Men / January 15, 2011

Gained Some Holiday Weight? Good. That’s What He Wants

’Tis the season for peace, joy and weight gain. After Christmas and New Year's, we will all jiggle a bit more. Women will feel like kicking themselves for their weight gain and will suffer from self-loathing that lasts long past the chocolate free-for-all of Easter. What women don’t know is that many men get Yule…

By: Ask Men / January 5, 2011

Does He Have Sexual Attention Deficit Disorder?

As a sex therapist and founder of Good in Bed, I’ve seen a sharp increase in men who suffer from a new syndrome I’ve dubbed “Sexual Attention Deficit Disorder,” or SADD. And the source of this problem is just a click away -- read more ...

By: Ask Men / December 17, 2010

How To Have Anal Sex

The secret to making anal sex a fantastic experience is all in the preparation. Whether you’re doing it for the first time or you’ve made it a regular part of your sex life, there are some essential steps to take before any back door action goes on. Read more ...

By: Ask Men / December 8, 2010

Did Chivalry Kill Feminism?

In the 1950s, the rules of dating etiquette were clearer. A man knew it was not only acceptable but expected for him to open the door for his date, pull out her chair and pay for the meal. These days, the line between appreciated chivalrous acts and condescending behaviors is fuzzy at best. The feminist…

By: Ask Men / December 4, 2010

At The Boys’ Club: She Can’t Orgasm

Over at AskMen.com, the guys have spent some time considering why some women are unable to reach orgasm. Certainly, it's a common question that Sex with Steph hears all the time. So if you can't orgasm, you're having trouble reaching climax, or your girl is challenged when it comes to scoring the big O, find

By: Ask Men / November 26, 2010

How To Have Sex In Risky Places

Not everyone can stomach the rush of risky sex. There could be trouble if you get caught with your pants down. Getting it on in illicit places is a bold and exciting move, and may just spice up your sex life an extra notch. The greatest and sexiest part about getting off in any of…

By: Ask Men / November 16, 2010

6 Academy Award-Winning Sex Scenes To Reenact In The Bedroom

Movies frequently offer both voyeuristic entertainment and great ideas for spicing up your sex life. A quick, hypothetical peek at the practices of some not-so-real couples can inspire greatness. We've already outlined seven great movie scenes that are worthy of reenactment, but in honor of the upcoming Academy Awards, let's take a look at some…

By: Ask Men / November 10, 2010

At The Boys’ Club: He’s Still Married

Hey Doc, I’m really clueless as to what I should do about the situation I’m in. I was with Kayla for over one month. We had an OK time, we enjoyed each others' company, and we both said “I love you” to each other. She was my second girlfriend, while I’m Kayla’s first boyfriend. We…

By: Ask Men / November 7, 2010

At The Boys’ Club: How To Pump Up Your Man’s Libido

Got a dude who's a dud in the sack? AskMen is here to help. "A great sex life involves more than having good technique. It is a lifestyle that expands beyond the bedroom and into the everyday. What you do or don’t do for your heart, mind, and body affects your sexual health. If you…

By: Ask Men / October 10, 2010

The 5 Craziest Things Women Do On Facebook

The Facebook phenomenon has allowed you to reconnect with your best friend from elementary school, keep up with your buddy’s travels and get out of hours-long phone conversations with your aunt. It truly is a remarkable tool. However, as with most things, there is a dark side to Facebook. While your male brain may not…

By: Ask Men / July 25, 2010

How To Communicate What You Want In The Bedroom

Getting what you want out of your sex life can be extraordinarily difficult for the simple reason that there’s another human being involved (usually). Not many of us are gifted communicators, much less communicators of sexual wants and desires, who can be inoffensive and still get what we want; however, there are a few basic…

By: Ask Men / July 24, 2010

How To Get A Girl To Get Dirty

The minds of men are frequently occupied with sexual ideas that would repulse the average woman. While this is the typical case, don’t assume that your girlfriend doesn’t have a dirty side. One of the advantages of being in a long-term relationship is the opportunity to share your sexual fantasies with each other and try…

By: Ask Men / July 18, 2010

What Women Are Insecure About

Does she always appear cool and confident to you? Or, conversely, do you sometimes feel like she has more than her share of insecurities? Most women, no matter how they present themselves to the outside world, have a few nagging insecurities -- especially when it comes to dating. Indeed, the dating world can be rough,…

By: Ask Men / July 11, 2010