Love, partnerships and equality are all still in flux this year, as the lessons that started last year continue, bringing full-on love/hate fests with others on all levels, even lifting you to new ones you never knew existed. It seems a challenge can be a bit exhilarating when it comes to the opposite sex and finding one that is your match; this will motivate you to remake your dream love life and realize that it’s not just about “me,” but “we,” and discover that competence, reliability and getting pleasure without giving detailed instructions is possible. Of course, the biggest surprise is that when things really start to gel, you’ll see that instead of going the typical over-the-top route and needing to thicken the plot with drama, embracing the practical side of life will be what feels new, exciting and right. As you’ll learn, real life is stranger and way more fulfilling than fiction.
Life and especially relationships are always going to be a work in progress and the only thing you can do is the right thing whenever you can. Make peace with that simple rule and cut down on the time you’ll kill with pushing yourself over the edge with self-analysis and overbearing criticism when dealing with others. Cut a deal with the demons in your head and this will make all your relationships easier. You seem to have it in your mind that having a strong partner somehow lessens you if you wind up depending on them, preferring to make them dependent on you before you should lower yourself into being reliant on them. Thankfully, this little sick game of cat and mouse will come to an end, as there’ll be a major reality bitch slap that comes to set your mind straight. Call it checks and balances or call it true love, whatever way you want to see it, accept it as a lesson to behold.
Your vanity is so big, it has its own zip code. However, life is about to kick you in the ass and make change happen. 2009 is your year for remaking yourself from the inside out, no matter what consequences it brings. Individuality is your theme and your focus will be getting your agenda heard to those who matter on your terms. Nothing others expect of you will be relevant, nor the rules they want you to play with, as this is your time to write new ones and put your energy flow back on your timeline. Once you do, you’ll find it’ll all naturally fall into place, putting you in a mindset to enjoy your accomplishments — this time around, the games are harder, compelling you towards a new perspective. Yes, you’ll realize that spoiling yourself isn’t about the material things and that enjoying the good life is at a price you can afford.
Best Times To Get Lucky:
Play with the stars and aim to win. These dates mark your luckiest periods for luck, love, sex and relationships, and also the times in which you’ll be at your very best. If you get a turbo boost, that indicates your luck in that area is doubly so — as in upping your chances to bigger and more exciting proportions!