4 Ways to Turn up the Kink in the Bedroom on Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is known to be one of the most romantic holidays of the year. Companies make a killing selling conventional V-Day gifts. I mean, teddy bears and chocolates are nice, but ladies, wouldn’t you much rather kick your romantic night up a notch or three?

Valentine’s day is the perfect time to spice things up in both your relationship and the bedroom. If you’re fresh out of ideas on what do besides dinner and a movie, that’s where I come in. I’m going to let you in on a few ways you can spice the night up with a little kink. Here we go:

1. Set The Mood

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Rose petals, candles, massage oil, music—all of those ordinary things will do the job to get you and your man in the mood, but let’s kick it up a notch. Channel your inner Anastasia Steele and whip some 50 Shades action on your guy. Head to the nearest sex store and purchase blindfolds, ankle/wrist restraints, spank paddles, tickling feathers, and even some nipple clamps. While you’re at it, throw in some of your favorite sex toys to add a little titillation to you and your partner’s senses.

2. Kink It Up

If you’ve been using the same positions to get off, try something new! Show your man who’s in control by hopping on top and riding him off into ecstasy. Tired of getting on top? Take him from behind or go with what you know and do it missionary style. Remind him who’s boss.

3. Watch Yourselves Get It On

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Nothing makes a man go crazier than watching the woman he loves love on herself. And I’m sure you like to watch him stroke his, uh, you know. Well, why not make both your nights by watching you get it in. Grab a full length mirror, place it against a flat surface, i.e., the wall, and take turns watching you and your lover go at it. This will surely introduce a new level of intimacy in the bedroom.

4. Press Record, Press Play

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Watching yourselves in the moment is pretty damn sexy, but being able to watch yourselves over and over and over, is mind-blowing hot. Sex tapes are so blah these days because everyone is doing it, but yours doesn’t have to be like that. Before you press the record button, make sure the both of you agree to filming yourselves. Once you’re done, cuddle up to your lover and watch the moment again, and again.

Have fun!