Yesterday, our very own Amelia wrote an article about her inability to orgasm from almost all of her sexual partners—with the exception of one. However, despite the fact that she’s frequently unable to reach the big “O” when partnered, she still finds sex satisfying.
But what if that partner were someone you wanted to marry? Could you tie the knot knowing he/she couldn’t get you off … and might never be able to?
“Sex can be enjoyable and wonderful and funny and horny and hot and pleasurable even if it doesn’t culminate in a shuddering orgasm,” Amelia wrote. “Just because an orgasm may not be on the menu doesn’t mean I still don’t want to eat.”
I get it. But if it came down to it, I’m not sure I would be able to spend the rest of my life with someone who couldn’t make me climax. In my mind, there’s no point in “eating” if you never feel fully satisfied. But maybe that’s just me.
We want to know: Would you marry someone who can’t make you orgasm?
Vote in our poll below and then from 4:00-4:30 p.m. ET, @TheFrisky will be discussing the question and poll results on Twitter. Be sure to join in on the convo and use the hashtag #ThisOrThat. See you then!