So that is what I looked like from the outside when my fiance dumped me out of the blue! Just like Des on part one of “The Bachelorette” season finale, which aired last night (the conclusion airs next Monday). Desiree, who had narrowed her choices down to three men — Drew, Chris and Brooks — clearly thought she had found true love with one of them … but it turned out his feelings for her were less, um, sure and so he decided to bail (for now — I suspect he comes back for part two of the season finale, because, seriously, where can Des go from here?), catching Des seriously off guard. It was really, really upsetting to watch because A) Des is so genuinely heartbroken and shocked, and B) it was like watching myself five years ago. Cringe. Watch all 17 minutes and 36 seconds wretched minutes in the three clips above!