Ever sense that your special date is too focused on fun to settle down in a relationship? Does your date say and do everything right–except commit to a relationship?
“Everybody plays the fool, sometimes,” sings Aaron Neville in his hit song. There’s a big difference between feeling like a fool in love and being played as a fool in a dating relationship.
In our tribe, we call these magnetically attractive and emotionally risky dates, “Pioneers”, since they’re always after greener trails.
Pioneers often are recently divorced or “free again” after a big break up, when they enter a phase of chasing pleasure in serial dating. Read more …


