We’ve all been there — majorly crushing on that chick we’re hanging out with, thinking this might actually go somewhere. And the more time we’re spending together, the more we realize how much we actually like her: how she talks, how she laughs, that she can chill with us like one of the guys. And then there’s that moment, when we realize that we haven’t really made a move yet. Were we waiting for her to go for it? Were we not sure she’d be into it? All of the sudden, she’s talking about another dude, she’s bringing you into the bathroom with her while we’re talking on the phone and calling us for advice.
We’ve addressed how to avoid the friend zone over and over with articles from our dating expert and more. But there was one question we never thought to ask, until we saw it on Quora: Why can’t most girls change their mindset about a guy friend into a potential mate?