I am an Aries and I was seeing a Libra. When he got accepted to college abroad, he moved. Before he went, he had said he loved me and could never forget me. We tried a long-distance relationship for a while, but it didn’t work out, especially for me. I don’t know who was the one with the worse communication skills, but yeah, it was rocky… Sometimes we wouldn’t talk to each other for months. I decided to call it off and he agreed because he said he’d do anything to make me happy. However, we kept in touch through mails and IM only, no phone calls.
Apparently, I am still stuck on that relationship because I never put my 100 percent in any other guy I have been with after him. I have been on lots of first dates, but can count the second dates on one hand. He still mails me once in a while and I have this nagging feeling that he might be getting over me because he has started to see this girl for sometime now. However, I am sure if I say anything about being back together, he might consider. Should I ? Do you think it would be worth all that trouble and heartache for all three people involved? I am miserable thinking about that one guy who had pleaded his “undying love and commitment” … the one I let go. – Empty
I say, go for it! You’re the sign that loves to take risks and what do you have to lose? If he truly cares, he won’t let you go as a friend even after this. While it may make things a bit odd initially, he will eventually deal with it and besides all that, if you don’t do it, you will forever live with this regret and why live with regret when you can still do something about it?
Really, who wants to hold on to nagging feelings they have for someone without really giving it a try and making an effort to see if they can make it work again? However, you need to be true to Aries form and really let him know what you want, how you feel, and do it all the way. Of course, with him being far away, how are you going to prevent the communication issues that arose last time? How are you going to make things different this time around and what do you expect from him? You are going to have to have those answers yourself and get them from him in order for this to work. As it goes, Libras will move on fast when they hook up with someone else, so know the door is closing shut on his part. But if he truly does care, then someone has to be the one to put the bets on the table and get that door open again! Odds are all in your favor — either you will get your man back or you will get the answers to your questions and start letting yourself get over him and be free. Either or, you win.
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