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Dear Wendy Updates: “Not A Chubby Chaser” Responds

Hey, are you someone I’ve given advice to in the past? Do you have an update on your situation you’re willing to share? Email me at {encode=”dearwendy@thefrisky.com” title=”dearwendy@thefrisky.com”} with a link to the original post, and let me know whether you followed the advice and how you’re doing now. Today we hear a “Shortcuts” update from “Not a Chubby Chaser,” whose sweet and confident boyfriend was “wonderful in almost every aspect,” except that he was “full-on overweight.” She asked, “How do I tell him, ‘You’re great, but I won’t date you because I’m not sexually attracted to you, Fatty. Lose some weight and I’ll do you!’ but in a waaaay nicer way?” I responded: “If he’s as sweet, considerate, fun, and ‘super confident’ as you say, he won’t have any problem finding a woman who loves him as he is, extra pounds and all.” So, did she decide to let him go and let some other girl have a shot with him? Did she tell him to drop the extra pounds? Are they still together? Find out after the jump.

“You rock. Best response ever. Thanks for responding to my question. I decided the weight doesn’t matter to me. He’s a great person and that’s what matters. I should wake up and smell the coffee and quit being so vain. If I don’t date him some other lucky girl will get to, and I want to be that lucky girl. Thanks, again.”

Now that’s the kind of update I like to hear!

If you’re someone I’ve given advice to in the past, I’d love to hear from you, too. Email me at {encode=”dearwendy@thefrisky.com” title=”dearwendy@thefrisky.com”} with a link to the original post, and let me know whether you followed the advice and how you’re doing now.

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