Ask The Astrosexologist: Strong Aries Wants To Bounce Back From Bad Ex

I am an Aries woman and have been sleeping with an Aquarius guy for the past two years. To make a long story short, I fell for his “I’ve-fallen-in-love-with-you-but-can’t-date-you-due-to-xyz-obligation.” He made promises of us being together in wedded bliss once he finished school and stressed his “dutiful son” role came before anything else, including his friends and me.

Over the course of this time, I’d break up with him often, but would return after he apologized and vowed eternal love, soon to be sleeping with him again. Then, just a couple of weeks ago, I reached my breaking point. I played detective and found out that he has about five other women he’s “in love with.” He’s told them all that they’re the ones and they’re meant to be together. One of these is a married woman and leaving her husband for him. After the shock, I confronted and dumped him immediately.

Of course, his first reaction was to bluff. Then he blocked my calls and threatened me with a lawsuit. Finally, he has e-mailed me to say that we were never together, I’m crazy, and I broke up with him all the time, so he had to move on. So, my question isn’t about him, because he’s a complete prick. My love question is for me: what’s wrong with me? I am an Aries woman; aren’t I supposed to have more pride and strength? He has been the only man I’ve let emotionally abuse me. I’ve never dealt with a cheater before; why do I yearn for his e-mails, just so we can argue? Why am I an emotional-cutter? – Too Numb for a Witty Name

Yes, you’re a bold Aries, but it doesn’t make you infallible to falling in love with an ass. We’ve all been there and done it, so no worries. The main point is you found out the truth and hightailed your ass out of there! As an Aries, you are the sign of battle, so yes, you can get off on the fighting, but there’s no time for that or beating yourself up over it. Sure, there is that residual hoping for a miracle, because you cared, but all in all, you are moving on and you sound like you are doing good; for that, you should be proud!

Plus, besides all his bulls**t, you have great astrological aspects and the future is only going to get better from here! Jupiter, the planet of luck and expansion, is in Aries for the whole summer and again for the first half of 2011 and Uranus, the planet of innovation, is also in Aries — so this means a time of luck, change and fun twists! Yes, this means you’ll fully get past that prick and onto better adventures soon enough!

Also, along with the planet of luck being by your side, as a Sagittarius rising, you also have this shot of luck in your romance house, so that can mean sudden chance meetings that are hot from the start. However, when moving ahead, do pay attention to the fact you are also a Venus in Pisces and Mars in Scorpio, which can make you overly compassionate. This means, keep your guard up and let them convince you of their worthiness, instead of making excuses and jumping the gun — because that can be your downfall. So, to make the most of these aspects, best to focus on having fun and test the waters to see what fate has in store for you, because for now it’s all about letting go of the past and being open to what destiny unravels, as this is your cosmic time to reap the rewards of your karma!

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