Ask The Astrosexologist: How Can This Solo Scorpio Bag A Boyfriend?

I am the definition of a Scorpio. I am passionate and extremely intense in everything I do, but I am always aware of other people and their emotions—yet, I’VE NEVER DATED IN MY LIFE. I go out a lot and a lot of my friends are in relationships. Everyone has got a person to lean on, always the not so nice girls that got the bitch title have a guy. Even though their personality is not very kind, the guys they have are too good for them—and everyone wonders why I cannot get one. They say I’m nice, they say I can be cute, but I don’t have anyone to hug and cuddle with. In fall, I’m starting college as a freshman. Since I’m starting a new chapter in my life I want to have someone. My question is what are my chances of finally getting a taste of the love bug? Do you have any advice for a certain sign for me to look for? Just what are the stars saying and is there any astro advice? – K.

Scorpios are loners at heart and while you might think you are desperate to have someone in your life, obviously the right person hasn’t come along to make you want it that bad. As it goes, Scorpios know how to handle themselves solo and when it comes down to relationships, they have to really feel it to be in it. So, as generic as this sounds, don’t worry about finding someone, even though everyone else seems to be, because your time will come. As it happens, this year there are amazing aspects for Scorpio and especially in the fall! Jupiter, the planet of luck, had been in Scorpio’s romance sector for most of 2010 and it’ll return in September until January 2011. Plus, from September 2010 to October 2010, love and passion planet Venus will be in Scorpio, working in sync, which means astrologically, the aspects will be there just in time to start your new life with a bang!

However, on your part, this means not overthinking the situation, as that is going to be the best way you can attract the right energy to you. After all, Scorpio is the sign of death, mystery and transformation, so that means Scorpios tend to come across intense and the more you are in that hunt mode, the more intimidating it can be for others to approach you. Sure, it’s not like you want someone lighthearted, so they do have to accept how you are right from the start, but it does take two to tango. So, best to just be in the swing of things and don’t think about it. Just be yourself, have fun, and be amongst your friends when going out to meet new people. Flirt and not play the game so seriously. There are no guaranteed ways to bag a boyfriend, and it’s a needle in a haystack to find the right one; as long as you stick to your guns about who you are and what you are about, in time you will find that person to connect with. It’s not a matter of how, but when. Obviously you don’t need a guy, so remember that and just let life happen, and in time, love will too!

Got a question for our Astrosexologist, Kiki T? Email [email protected] and be sure to include any astrological information about yourself and any other people involved in your query. For a quicker fix on mastering your man, read Kiki’s astral opus, The Celestial Sexpot’s Handbook. Plus, now you can follow Kiki T on Twitter for astrological updates, as they happen!