10 Dating Mindsets Sabotaging Your Love Life

It’s easy to lose yourself over a man, but what if it happens before you even meet him? Ill-fated past relationships may have already warped your dating personality and consequently sabotaged your future with someone else.

In her latest book, Ms. Typed: Discover Your True Dating Personality and Rewrite Your Romantic Future, Dr. Michelle Callahan says she has the cure for women whose dating characteristics no longer accurately reflect who they truly are. The seasoned psychologist has formulated 10 dating archetypes that women fall into after too many relationships gone wrong:Ms. Second Place: The accommodating, eager-to-please dater who eventually ends up playing second fiddle to her man’s career, hobbies or even wife. This chronic “settler” has lost sight of her self-worth after too many relationships in which she gives way to his needs every time. As a result, she suffers from low confidence and low expectations.

How she might have got here: “Men you’ve dated may have tried to convince you that you should go along with whatever they wanted, otherwise they wouldn’t date
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