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Ask The Astrosexologist: My Sagittarius Booty Call Runs Hot & Cold!

My dilemma involves a man whom I’m extremely attracted to, but very ambivalent about romantically. We’re known each other for over a year and things either seem to move at a snail’s pace or just come to a screeching halt entirely. The last time we were in the same vicinity was sometime in October. He called me at 3am under the guise of being too drunk to drive. Being the kind soul that I am, I picked him up and let him crash at my place. I felt nervous and awkward, but my altruistic side won out. He apologized for his antics, swore up and down that he didn’t blame me for hating him, etc. Naturally, this fueled my frustration and I may have ripped into him a little about his actions towards me. We fooled around, but no intercourse occurred. This is the second time he’s stoked my fire just enough, but not enough to go all the way. I feel cautious because it feels like he is hiding something, but I can’t put my finger on what. I want to believe that he cares, but his broken words leave me doubting. It feels like I should walk away, but very time I seem to get to that point is when he happens to show up again. I don’t know whether this is one to walk away from or try to make a go at it. I don’t know if my head or my heart or both are right in this situation. My DOB is March 10, 1984 (birth time 5:30 pm Nassau, Bahamas) and his DOB is 12/4/1980. — When To Walk Away?In normal circumstances, I would say the time to walk away is now. However your Sagittarius man has a moon, Mercury and Venus in Scorpio — which means he’s a plotter and is super secretive about his feelings. Although his Sagittarius sun makes him impetuous, it mixes oddly with all his Scorpio aspects, causing him to be like a stick shift car with a novice behind the wheel around women. This means if you want it, sister, you’re going to have to throw down the gauntlet first. His lame attempt at a booty call with the 3am drunk dial is all you are going to get if you leave it up to him, so kick it into action.

However, don’t take this as a total green light, as his behavior is a red flag too. If a man doesn’t have the balls to be direct, then realize this could be an ongoing struggle in your relationship. Of course, since you are a Pisces, the sign of compassion, you’ll probably find this awkwardness somewhat endearing. Mix this with your Virgo rising, which loves to analyze everything, and your Gemini moon, which likes games, this is right up your alley (until you get him, perhaps). But understand that this doesn’t mean true love forever, because astrology doesn’t work like that. Astrology is like a weather report and it’s your freewill that chooses what to do with it all. So, with that said, a good time for you to get it going is on the new moon in Capricorn, when it enters your natal romance house that’ll occur on Dec. 27th. Also, eclipses are beginning in your house of romance starting on Jan. 11th. Those are both auspicious dates to set in your mind as the deadline to lay your feelings on the line.

He is a Sagittarius, so he’ll appreciate the directness and the honesty. The more blunt you can be, the better. Really all you will need is, “I like you. Do you like me?” Anything else will complicate this matter and it already seems like a bit of a tangled mess already. Someone has to just go for it and say what he or she feels. Obviously it has to be you and at this point, this is your only way out. If you never ask, you’ll never know and if you never know, it’ll haunt you forever — the Piscean downfall is that they have a tough time processing the past so that it stays in the past. Prove you have what it takes and say it. Besides, you have nothing to lose. In the off chance he doesn’t have those feelings back, then hey, at least you’ll know it’s time to move on, which is more than what is happening now with the emotional rut you’ve placed yourself in.

Got a question for our Astrosexologist, Kiki T? Email astrosexologist@thefrisky.com and be sure to include any astrological information about yourself and any other people involved in your query! For a quicker fix on mastering your man, read Kiki’s astral opus, “The Celestial Sexpot’s Handbook.”

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