Ask The Astrosexologist: My Gemini Fiance Has A Secret Gay Porn Stash!

“I am so confused, lost and upset. I just found a stash of gay porn in my fiancé’s car trunk. We are set to get married in December this year. What should I do? How do I confront him? I’m a Libra and you know we hate fighting. Anyway, I don’t suspect my Gemini boyfriend could be gay, but who knows.” — Dating A Dandy? Swallow your fears and ask. Hello, you’re making a lifelong commitment to bind your life with his and you’re scared to ask what the deal is with the gay porn? That alone has red flags all over it. Sure, it’s a shock at first, but there could be plenty of reasonable and fair explanations. So he might have some gay porn, so what? Perhaps he’s curious and a bit bi, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you. Everyone has curiosities and for him, perhaps the only way he can explore his homosexual desires is through porn. After all, Gemini is the sign of twins and they do have a tendency to want to play on both sides of the fence. There’s nothing wrong with that, if that is the case and he can be open with it. Otherwise, if he is closeted without being able to deal, then you are going to have to find out.

No matter what, you should get an explanation for this — after all, being his soon-to-be-wife, you’re entitled to know about his sexual desires. Just don’t blow your wad too soon and jump to the worst conclusions that you’re just a beard. Be open to hear what he has to say and understand this discovery now is a good thing, because waking up to your 10th year of marriage and being told you are being left for another man just wouldn’t be all that sweet. Be bold and remember Libra is the sign of justice too — not jut passive harmony. Ask and have that truth set you free. Set the date for October 31st or after, when Mercury goes back to where it was before the retrograde in Libra. By starting the dialogue then you can reach into the past to bring what you need into the future a little more clearly and hopefully help you both come to an understanding that you are both at peace with.

Got a question for our Astrosexologist, Kiki T? Email astrosexologist@thefrisky.com and be sure to include any astrological information about yourself and any other people involved in your query!

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